What do you woman perfer? for menopause? wearing estroven patches? or taking it by mouth? or Herbs?

The best thing to use is the thing that makes you feel best! Some feel better on patches, some on pills, some on herbs. I encourage you to experiment. It also depends what age you are. If you're younger than 51, you might want to use patches or pills. If you're older than that, then the rule is, the smallest amount of estrogen for the shortest time you are comfortable with, so herbs are preferable to prescription medications. The estrogen in patches is better for you than the estrogen in most pills, and it is delivered in a way more similar to how ovaries work. But if you like pills better, or you feel better on them, then use them.