Looking for women to offer insight into difficult matter of the heart?

I can never know how stressful the relationship got and or was; but the bottom line is...relationships are work! Everyone has problems it's not sunshine and rainbows every day! I feel sadden to read this because you seem to love her very much. It's very hard for me to tell you this; but she just does not feel the same way about you. If she was willing to be there for you and felt the same way; she would have stuck with you through the good times and the bad and obviously she hasn't and she moved on. I suggest you do the same. Changing your financial situation could take many years; but that does not change who you are or the relationship you had with her. It did not make you love her less. So it's her loss!